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How to get a better night's sleep

 

If you sleep better, you think better. If you think better, you plan better. If you plan better, you execute better. If you execute better you make more progress. If you make more progress, you are a happier person. Sleep also helps you heal; its an important part of life and you want to do it well. Here are a dozen things you can do to improve your slumber.

1. Exercise. Every pemphigus and pemphigoid patient should exercise. There are at least 100 good reasons to do so, but you only need one: it will help you sleep at night. Talk with your doctors and a physical therapist to come up with a realistic set of exercises, even if its only walking around the block but avoid exercise within 4 hours of bedtime.

2. Get into a healthy routine. Stick to a regular bed time and wake up time, too.

3. If you cant sleep, relax. Normally it takes 20 to 30 minutes to get to sleep. If you cant sleep, dont just toss and turn. Get out of bed and try some relaxation techniques, or some other activity to relax. The bed is for two things only and one of them is sleep!

4. Avoid big meals just before bedtime. Give yourself a couple of hours before you hit the sack. (This will also help you avoid gaining weight.) Sometimes spicy foods can keep us up, see if this applies to you.

5. No stimulants! Avoid caffeine, alcohol or sugar before bedtime and watch your daily intake levels too. Drink a class of warm milk or herbal tea if you must drink something, but not if it will wake you in the middle of the night to go to the bathroom.

6. Sleep Ritual. You can program your mind to prepare for sleep if you develope a daily set of activities just before retiring. Lock the doors, put out the cat, read something happy, inspiring or relaxing (but not in bed!), or some other such activities that signals your body to prepare for sleep.

7. Use sleeping pills sparingly, if at all. Prescription or nonprescription pills should not be used regularly, some are even addictive. The best sleep is natural sleep, but if you just cant get to sleep, go to method #9. Avoid naps--if you can. Sleep experts suggest avoiding naps, especially if they are over 20 minutes and certainly if they right before your regular bed time. They want you to keep your regular schedule, but if its the only way to get some sleep, then do it and dont feel guilty about it.

8. Talk to your doctor. If you are having persistent problems getting to sleep discuss it with your doctor. There might be a physical problem or more likely its your medications. Some meds might be taken earlier to prevent sleep disruption. Prednisone might keep you awake, if so, get all the rest and relaxation you can. Dont stress over a missed nights sleep, but try to keep to your regular schedule. Avoid doing too much when you are feeling well, which might lead to more fatigue. Try to maintain an even pattern of activity and sleep. Moderation, remember?

9. Temperature. Not too hot, not too cold. There are many ways to control the temperature. If the room is too bright, use an eye shade, or pull a knit cap down over your eyes.

10. Quiet. Sounds like common sense: you cant sleep with bothersome noises. If you cant eliminate the noise, counter it out with soft music, or a tape/CD of the ocean. Ear plugs are another option.

11. Positive thoughts. If you think you will get a good nights sleep, you are more likely to. You want a good nights sleep. You deserve one and you need it, so go ahead and enjoy it. If something is bothering you, write down a brief note and deal with it in the morning when you are rested and clear headed.

12. Relaxation techniques - Find a relaxation technique or two from the list on this page. They work! Use em!

Here are five tried-and-true relaxation techniques. Try them all to find the one that works best for you.

  • Stretching - You want to breathe slowly and evenly. Start with your feet move them gently until the tension is gone, relax. Move up the body slowly, one muscle group at a time. A variation on this theme would be to tighten each muscle group before stretching it.

  • Mantra - Close your eyes. Take several very deep breaths, exhale very slowly and completely. A mantra is a one or two-syllable word or sound such as OM, ball or any other word you choose. It doesnt have to make sense, it just has to relax you. Repeat it to yourself as you exhale very, very slowly, like this: caaaaaaaaalllllllllmmmmmmm. Breathe slowly, exhale fully, pause and repeat until asleep.

  • Visualization - Close your eyes. Take several very deep breaths, exhale very slowly and completely. Visualize yourself in an idyllic place, a deserted beach, a quiet wood or someplace you like. See the place in your mind. Imagine what sounds you would hear; what scents you would smell. Feel a cool relaxing breeze on your skin. The more details you imagine the more real the place will be. If your mind wanders, and it will, just come back to your perfect private place.

  • Toes to head - Close your eyes. Take several very deep breaths, exhale very slowly and completely. Concentrate on your toes. Release the tension until they tingle. Let the tingle flow up to your ankles. No need to rush. Enjoy the moment. When they are completely relaxed, move up to your calves. Let them relax fully, move to your knees. Move up the body slowly, torso, arms, neck, until you reach your scalp or fall asleep.

  • Drain the tension - Close your eyes. Take several very deep breaths, pause for a long moment then exhale very slowly and completely. Now continue to breathe slowly and deeply. As you relax, think of your body as a container of orange liquid full to the brim. The liquid is full of your tensions and worries. Now simply open an imaginary drain plug in your heels and let the liquid--and your tension--drain slowly away.

All these tips will help, but you need to use them and practice them regularly. The reward is self-evident, we all know how good we feel after a full, healthy nights sleep. It may take a few practice runs to get the full effect but it is definitely worth the effort. If you feel dizzy, you are breathing too hard. Why not give them a try tonight? All you have to lose is your tension.